Well, it is probably clear that every girl loves that the man makes her laugh … Two things come to mind: One is negative and the other is positive but it takes both. Who in the hell wants to date someone like you or wants to be friends with someone like you? This is why I prefer a lot of foreign women (even those state-side with a green card), as in a lot of non-western cultures, girls are more confident and will often make a move (e.g. BTW, if anyone is afraid of this being a sexist man’s argument, the article was written by a woman. Also what I don’t like about dating sites women are shallow on their profiles. I’m a High Schooler and I find no time for a girlfriend. Here’s the TRUTH guys – if love is difficult for you the MOST IMPORTANT AND LIKELY CAUSE is you don’t love yourself and you’re too selfish, expecting to find love WITHOUT giving it FIRST. What do you base this statement on? Maybe I’m too old. It is all unconcious nature at work. Delusional all of them. 6 Types of Emotional Baggage: What’s in Your Bag? Online dating has become just so popular and convenient. Maybe I’m just not attractive to any woman. I don't care what anyone says either. They say they have no idea, so I’m at a complete loss at this point and really don’t feel like going out and being rejected yet again. Awkward? How about an article on that, Kate… would you write it… in a respectful tone… would you? When you do this, she’ll either be head over heels receptive or she won’t. And going back to the old days which most women were the very complete opposite than what they really are today which is very sad how the women of today are. And if you have any problems do not forget that you are not in a session with your psychologist, you are on the first date with a potential girlfriend. I am 54 and want to date ladies around my own age, say 48 to 56. I have had some very bad rejections with girls being offended and saying that thing has dared to speak to me on more than one occasion. So I decided as a child I wouldn’t be like that. After reading this, I’m personally disgusted on what you’re is telling us! “FACT – Guys have it SO much easier than girls”. I wish ALL men would just stop for a decade or two until the dating world is more equal. Yep, many of those reasons describe my personality quite well. I would suggest you try online dating. Then I’m happy being alone! If she doesn’t want you for who you are, then she’s not the one for you. I have lots of women friends and have no problems connecting with women as a friend – but that’s it – nothing more, and no woman ever wants more than friendship with me. But given the fact I’m 19 and been rejected by soo many girls I’ve lost count it really affects my mojo from time to time. In the old days love was very easy to find for the ones that were really looking for it with no trouble at all. so I would like to think it is just a case of bad luck as of yet. I ask and get told to “F off” or they just don’t want to know, I must of asked hundreds of women and they all say the same thing, I don’t even bother now as it’s a complete waste of my time as I get absolutely nowhere. Most women out there today are just complete losers altogether, with a lot of very severe mental problems to go along with it as well. If you have any other advice, I’d welcome if. I give up….. to top it off friends who are girls see pics in my 20s and say should have been a model…..they never tell you why they think I’m undateable. Finally, if you are in the bottom 80% even if you do everything on this list there is a good chance you want even get a date, let alone a girlfriend. Or want a man bigger than them. Most women today are crazy SJW liberals. I’m not the kind of guy who’s willing to pay for it – which is the only way I could ever have any form of physical intimacy. If you feel that you’re wasting time on someone who doesn’t value your qualities, it’s time to ditch them. You’re Just A Nice Guy. I’ll be honest, Kate: I find your response disappointing – I responded to your comment that the women I invested effort in were likely not interested in me by asking for your advice – and you tell me to seek professional help? My question is, if I NEVER get signals from any woman, why should I bother approaching at all – since rejection is literally guaranteed every time? If you have a mediocre job, no kids, of you don’t want kids or to get married, you’ll fail. The most important is to always love yourself first and go after what you desire to do and have in your life, and be open to receiving all sorts of forms of love in your life. If you keep going, there might be a little chance you find someone. I know another lady who married to someone who is quiet overweight. I ask women out in all kinds of venues – not including bars because I don’t go to bars or clubs because I’m not into drinking, sports or loud music. I’m a very shy, introverted man and always have been. Tbh I wish I could help him – and so would a real man (which you are clearly not). Yes, a guy cares way more about how his girl looks, but…Girls care too! Some girls don’t want a man to be her boyfriend for very specific almost anal reasons, and not taking care of yourself definitely fits the bill. Just keep living life, yes give up ..yes GIVE UP and focus on reading, play the piano, watch movies, travel. All right. Go out learn an art . Great news! A chaperone is a family member from a woman’s or man’s side who comes on a date to control how the date goes. Hello I’m from the UK my personal story isn’t important, but what I’m about to tell you is. Please note that these friends existed in her life before she met you. PLEASE, I NEED ADVICE. Never worked. I wish I’d been a rockstar or something so I could know what it’s like for women to approach me. So stop white knighting for them. Millions! Regardless, you are who you are in the now and if you don’t love yourself, you might never get a girlfriend. They have better answers for you. So 12 things mean nothing if you aren’t a functioning grown up. Should I consider looking for older ladies in their 30s and 40s? Why can’t girls try to be perfect? I am confident (and successful) in other areas of my life, but that makes no difference if I can’t show that to women – and I can’t. And they really are very much too blame as well. And be left with a whole lot of moolah for yourself. Your comment shows how much of a non-empathetic person you are. But is it to much to ask for a girl to be good looking, in shape and have a good career? Your house wouldn’t feel so empty and lonely. I have no confidence in that I could ever have someone to cuddle with achieving through means of not paying for it, don’t see myself in that situation. I’m 31, and I’am sure that I will be alone forever. Guys, on the other hand, generally don't have a cache of women to choose from. I try again… Hey wanna meet up this weekend… History repeats. Your mother thinks you’re a mistake. Her name is Shannon. Despite being very social, having lots of friends including females, economically secure with my own place I find despite trying that I have now been single for 30 years with a 100% rejection rate. Career, money, friends, that is working out for me, but this…. 1) They’re all greedy and selfish. I had six and seven different diagnoses for my condition and the doctors screwed my brains up on medicines I didn’t need. That’s all I can do right? You’re a horrible person Kate67. I mean I have a decent job and I’m a ok guy. I’m 28. With most women nowadays that sleep around with so many different guys all the time which they will never find the time to only stay with one guy anyway. I don’t know the outcome of this social experiment there are so many variables but just remember that we are all in this together and you are here for a reason this is not the time for ego (the true sense of the word). And indeed, I found some reasons that fit on me like a glove. The issues that they have with you can at times be just due to the fact that some of them just get WAY TOO MANY advances from guys on a daily basis (it doesn’t help when women insist on giving guys advice to keep on being so persistent when all it does is keep on falsely inflating the egos of women everywhere), so they really just think that they are more special than they actually are. Let the women pursue you, never pursue the woman. Like they say it really does take two too tango now. Scratch that, if you ever want to have any relationship at all. Women want to be able to go out to a movie or a nice meal without worry. Stop being so fearful over the little things. Of course the things on this list do respectfully fit some guys but a lot of us decent guys do get used as friendship poles to lean on when some girls date someone who treats them like garbage and yet returns to him. Girls have no trouble sniffing out the man that is needy and dependent. I agree with most of these tips, but not all are written in stone and every girl/situation is different, and in fact this largely depends on your own confidence and social skill. My best friend who is like 400lb has been dating no issue so stop being so superficial. Even online, I would only “like” someone instead of messaging them unless you have something you really want to say. Are women this delusional? And God forbid for many of us men just trying to start a normal conversation with a woman that we would really like to meet has really become so very dangerous for us now as well since many of these women will be screaming sexual harassment. I say everything exactly to the truth. This isn’t a good thing because “nice” guys usually do finish last. If you are a pretty girl, life is handed to you on a plate, guys have to work that ass off just to get some girl to at least smile at them smh. I hope something will work out soon. Do you belong to a church? Why Some People Can't Find Anyone to Marry "Water, water everywhere, but not a drop to drink." The only guys that get that kind of attention from the opposite sex are few and far in-between. I am alone, but if I could change it I would. If she knows your favorite drink or food , or knows how u like your coffee , she likes u. So it is very obvious why so many of us men are still single today with all these type of women around that are very much too blame. You want things to be as natural as possible, so you shouldn’t be waiting for me to ask you. Fortunately, MGTOW is here to save you. It’s that simple. Be the flame not the moth. If you are serious about getting a girlfriend, you need to step out into the light and go to the social places where girls hangout. All of what you say is true. Dating in this era is completely f***ed thats why i beat my meat and play fortnite all day. I probably am on the shy side though I get an average of 3-5 girls numbers a month. And for bonus if you can take them on a mini vacation without the worry of money, you are golden. Why because the only viable mates in my area have nothing to offer except a used up p**sy. I can tell you as I have been looking for 9 years now, Women just think all men just want sex, Women don’t want respectful guys, Women can’t make a decision or even commit to a first meeting let alone a date even after talking with them for up to 5 months. That makes no sense, look I don’t know what little world you live in but men do not have it easier than women. Salsa classes or any other classes (yoga, art, cooking, foreign language classes etc. I have been bullied my entire life because I’m different. a girl isn't going to just hand herself to a guy on a silver platter; it doesn't work It was the worst relationship. Firstly, most women do NOT give a sh*t how much money you make. Ok that’s great advice. This is what always works. So enjoy meeting women look for warning signs especially when drugs and alcohol play a Role and abuse starts get out right away. What if she thinks I’m a … It’s a pathetic way to view the world and very spoiled. If they’re sitting together at a restaurant, it’s a two-way street. Everyone, men and women, should show some self respect and take care of themselves, if for no other reason than to avoid health problems later in life. You are human and you will make mistakes. 3. “what kind of man says I’m sorry! Or do you have any single neighbors you can ask out? 3) “Foreign women (particularly Eastern European and Asian women) are so much nicer”. I didn’t realize girls were so fussy, personally I don’t mind all that much how they look, or how much money they’re on, or how insecure they are etc. My problem is that I’m too logical, I talk in literal sense, I look at everything with reason/logic and no emotions. Or maybe don’t expect Prince Charming to come sweep you off your feet and give you a life of luxury. There are more important things other than getting laid, people. Guys, unless I am having the wrong perspective, please do provide feedback to my previous comment. 25, 30, 40, 50, 60 – its NOT too late. I’ve read all the comments and what you have to realise is the bigger picture. So 8 guys are competing for 1 woman. http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/tinder-man-swipes-right-on-200000-women-with-little-success-a7168056.html, https://www.betterhelp.com/start/?help_with=Relationships. We all have degrees of beauty, power, and intelligence. It’s really just an attitude of “you won’t hurt me if you reject me.” So if the woman feels that they won’t hurt the guy all too much, then she is bound to not reject him as easily as she would a “weaker looking” guy. Libary or bookstores, You want Men to pretty much be able to balance everything perfectly like being assertive and being nice and also to become exactly what a woman wants, at the same time try to not be too perfect because that forces the girl to try to be perfect herself? Am I just unlucky? Don’t feel down, buddy. If you are depressed and lonely, you should probably see a professional who can give you better advice. hear hear. The girls these days are too shallow. I think I am in some aspects a cool person and it would be nice if there was someone like me even when I die – my kids. After reading this I feel better being single. FACT – Guys have it SO much easier than girls. Twitter. How many times do you see your girl co worker talking to guys and laughing and flirting. I would stay away from free dating sites like Plenty of Fish or Tinder. Facebook. If you want to find someone, you can go out more or find a hobby that interest you. A lot of very pathetic women out there now that really think their shit doesn’t stink which is the real problem right there why so many of us good single men Don’t have one at all. But besides that, being too nice which I find hard to believe is just flat out stupid. There are many more stories I can recall right now of that sort. Whoever wrote this just one message go f..ck yourself. And most of these women now just want to party and get real wasted to begin with unfortunately since they will never be able to settle down with only one man anyway. One woman does not like sleeping in the same bed as her boyfriend, another wants a boyfriend that also wanted to children but was not able to (she hit mesopause right before she was going to marry a man interested in children). All you need is a clean look and some stubble to drive a girl crazy!” Woah, woah, woah, hold it RIGHT there. All rights reserved. Be like me, f**k the young ones and throw them to the curb, if you are too ugly get a hooker. Females are uniform cookie cutter replicas of one another. Truth – When you are in shape, you are showing her you care about your body and that works wonders when you are focused on getting a girl. Shell shock may be scary but only you can help yourself forget those horrid expierences. This is reality and the crap about building confidence, etc., really is snake oil. I want to say even if you are ugly and broke or good looking and rich you will get a girlfriend but it will be difficult if you are ugly and very poor because I told you the girl that will love ugly and poor man are already taken only few are left and they might not be in the country you live in or the state.the world has gone digital and girls want digital looking guy and rich too but there are some girls that date and marry ugly and poor guys getting this girls is very difficult to find and finding them is like trying to win a lottery jackpot because almost all are taken already.if you use a dating app you are almost wasting your time because you will end up have depression dating app are full of criminals,fraud,and girls that are doing business you may never get attention if your picture doesn’t look like that of densel Washington and must of the girls are fake girls with extremely stunning,most messages you likely to receive are from perv,fraud,trans,gay,married couples looking for 3somes.don’t try to impress any woman some guys try to impress women by having clean shaving or wearing nice clothes but nowadays most women will be impressed when you look like that guy they use to see in the movie,when you are famous or getting to being famous and have cash to spend and also they like those guy that like smoking cancer saying it cigarettes and they love that guy that every woman admires his looks.nowadays girls don’t want to have boyfriend because they love you they want boyfriend that if you go out with them other girls will be jealous and peeing on their pant because he is hot this are the makeup extravagant stylish girls of these generation. OK … and your advice to me on how to move forward would be? And if you get STDs well you should have worn a condom. There are enough fish in the pound because there weren t and there aren t enough abortions, if men were fewer than today, all men would get laid in a heartbeat, so that s the solution. A few of my woman friends have – on occasion – seen me asking women out and getting rejected – and I’ve asked them what it is that causes literally every woman to say no. This whole complicated process is completely insane. Have you ever tried copying her entire planner? You can still ask her out again another time. I do believe it all takes effort, but I think it should be equal from both sides, really. At first, it is more important how do you deal with her how much you are witty and dedicated. And another thing yeah I am picky because there are shitty people like you out there I wouldn’t touch with a 10 foot pole. And if your worried, but but I might lose her, that’s fake news. You have to walk over and talk to girls that you find attractive. They’d have a fat, bald and smelly guy if he’s willing to be a lapdog. If you are a programmed creature of habit that never changes his ways, you just aren’t going to have a girlfriend. He attacked her with a knife, and threatened to burn the house down while me and my brother were in it. Just look at some of them walking around with hot women, and it’s readily apparent THAT isn’t the case. your right on target , couldnt have said it any better. I have a home a car and my Harley Davidson. A lot of Islam followers don’t have sex before they get married; therefore, a chaperone is present on the date to bring down the sexual temptation. Be the flame not the moth. Girls, Why can't an ugly guy get a date? 14- We get tired of being told to f*** off, that we’re too ugly, stupid, fat, gross, repulsive, and my personal favorite, so hideous you should kill yourself. I’ve been single for 12 years now. If you get all crazy about your past mistakes with women, it will interfere with getting a girlfriend in the now. Facebook. Honestly I’m so frustrated with women these days. Any advise would help as I approach my 30th year of being single, i totally understand what you are goin through and feel for ya. Wow, what a joke. I have autism too. I just can’t take it anymore. Then she blames the guy who’s sitting there for not keeping her happy…. The women today are totally different from the past unfortunately which now they will go with men that have a lot of money since they’re just real gold diggers and total losers altogether to begin with. My mother certainly is a selfish b..ch, and bled my father dry, but she is actually insanc. Currently I am broke. Although the material is a significant sentence when asking marriage while courting a woman you want to conquer, avoid talking about money and your income. It would be difficult to assess how selfish or altruistic on average women in past generations and the present are. I know exactly how you feel. If you have any kind of hygiene issues, you will never get a girlfriend. I don’t want a girlfriend because I wanted a girlfriend and I feel like I am waiting a hundred years to get one. So I am a sophomore in high school, 14 years old, a 4.0 student. You will be less successful but you might get some replies back. Your looks. It was just too very bad that the real good old fashioned ladies are all gone now since they were the very complete opposite of what these women are today which it definitely would’ve been much easier finding love back then with no trouble at all. It is just too very bad that we don’t have women like the old days when they were very old fashioned and real ladies as well which made love very easy to find at that time with no trouble at all. I’m financially stable, but I am not rich. I have a square face and big jaw bones. What else should we do? He was when they met. Not everyone can get the good job. Technology is turning women into weird human creatures. Ive tried online dating for 4 years with zero responces to my request, and no views apart from 2 gay men. I lack Social Calibration. Well first of all the women of today are very completely different from the old days which very much complicates things for many of us good men still looking to find love today. Im not sure if youre trolling or mentally retarded lol…. I mean really look after your own needs, and focus on being happy, not lonely. We’re also told that women are tired of unwanted male attention, so please leave them alone. Hi Kate I would never do online dating anymore. Ive finally gotten to a point (in my 40s now) where I’m done trying. When she has her own interesting life, she can teach you new things, show you new hobbies, sports, places, people… The correct advice is to be the best person YOU can be, and achieve YOUR goals, while making HER prove HERSELF to YOU as any high-value man should. It’s sad when people are greedy and many people are, but I don’t think there’s a difference between sexes. We are all trying to find someone in our own way, in our own time. All girls don’t go for fit people. to have girlfriends or to dont have?that is the question. Does that mean I have nothing? Guys will still be interested. I frequent Salsa and Latin dance studios , I go to dance socials as much as I can …Studios and dance socials cost pennies and no most of these settings are nothing like bars and nightclubs . 1. But it isn’t fair to not expect women to reciprocate by abandoning perfectionism and doing their part in being more datable as well. Studies say the majority of guys that can’t get a girlfriend just don’t try enough times. Further Reading: Do’s/Don’t While Making Conversations With Women. I am fundamentally unattractive to women, so please don’t tell me that dating is a numbers game, to gain confidence, or to put myself out there and get rejected 10 thousand times. But people will jump through hoops for an attractive girl and this gives them power. I’m a little bit slender, but my spirit is strong. Although I’d love to have / be capable of acquiring it, I have zero sex appeal whatsoever. With your attitude that every girl wants only money, and that this is what is in the first place for all women you will never have the opportunity to achieve a quality relationship with a girl.
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